Source: China News Agency
During the Spring Festival holiday with lively and reunion -based tone, there were a little "cold topic" in the Weibo hot search list - "Why do young people do not like to walk relatives?" "The family's "broken relatives'" has attracted a lot of discussion among netizens.
"Broken relatives" refers to the negligence and even rejecting to contact with non -straight relatives and maintaining emotions.The discussion of this topic has actually been sometimes. In the traditional sense, the strongest Spring Festival has the strongest meaning of the controversy.
Professor Liu Haiming of Chongqing University recently posted an online analysis on the Internet that every family cannot exist in society in isolation, and there are always several families with all blood relationships to maintain contact with them.Every New Year's Eve walks around.During the Spring Festival, the phenomenon of broken relatives in blood relationships indicates a crisis of affection and social affection shaped by blood.This crisis affects the nerves of countless people, and it is not surprising that it has become a hot topic in social media.
"Every family gathering is always unhappy, and the elders who drink too much wine attack and scold each other." "Relatives are often compared with each other, making people feel tired."The core is whether there is cohesion in the family.
As a "post -90s", the real reason why netizens "Soldout" feel that "disconnection" is that the individual needs to bear all the expectations of a large family.Without "disconnecting", many people cannot avoid high pressure from the elders.Behind the "disconnection" has become a social topic, there are changes in contemporary lifestyle, the intergenerational gap, the conflict of concepts, and more complicated affection and the helplessness of young people ...
"There must be a lot of people who have negative experiences in the relationship, but this is only one of the many factors that promote the 'broken relative'. The fundamental reason is that the Chinese social structure has changed.Going to today's 'City China'.
Sociologist Fei Xiaotong once pointed out that the clan network with blood relationship as the bond is the most important social network to maintain the "local China".But after entering today's modern, open, and high -liquidity society, people's daily life has also changed dramatically.
Hu Xiaowu said that the entire country has become a "city China" in the facts, and it is no longer a "local China" in the past.At the end of 2023, China's urbanization rate had reached 66.16%.
"People would rather look for accurate matching 'social closes' from the Internet, and they are not willing to trouble their relatives or acquaintances." Wang Shengyun, a lecturer in Yunnan Academy of Administration, said on the Internet that this phenomenon should be regarded as an objective fact.Looking at it, it is an inevitable stage of social development.
This article says that the family or family's "ceremonial music" in the new era is the realization path to build a family civilization.The development of the blood community and the community of destiny to the community of interests between relatives, and cultivating more common interests, hobbies and learning growth can promote affinity, rather than limited to economic burdens or difficulty sharing.
"So, now the young people really" did the six relatives recognize '? This' hat' cannot be easily deducted. "The half -monthly talks behind a report to analyze the phenomenon of" broken relatives ".What.It is reported that in fact, contemporary young people are eager to be true affinity and family cohesion, which can become their floating boats and harbor harbor after being injured.
Reporting calls for the elders to "integrate" instead of "intervening" the life of young people. To recognize the change and transformation of society, we cannot use the original set of traditional value concepts to evaluate the current young people.
PhD students of Wuhan University School of Social Sciences and "post -95s" Yuan Meng published their own return to their home to observe on the Internet. They believed that the prevalence of "broken relatives" did not mean the true insulation of individuals. Everyone did not want "relatives", "relatives""But the family and relatives who want to meet modern needs.Because the latter can bring rich emotions, mutual assistance and significance experience to the individual.
In addition, the People's Daily's comments also questioned, is the so -called "broken relative" behavior of individual phenomena or common phenomenon?Is it emotionally venting or true?If it is just a vent, some of the niche complaints, some localized vomiting, and "upgrade" are the hot search topics that disturb the people?
"You should not let the comprehensive online issues want to tear consensus." This comment said.
