The relationship between mother and daughter is most conducive to helping her daughter build a solid willingness and mentality.Policy makers should pay attention to how to support the role of elders in promoting the next generation of fertility, professional help modern mothers, talk to children about marriage with children without pressure, and plans to give birth to children.
Singapore's population policy has changed 180 degrees in the past half a century.From the 1950s to the 1970s, the infant wave after World War II severely impacted Singapore's residence problems and derived the two children's policies for the next 30 years.Millennium 1.41.In the next 20 years, the increase in parenting encouragement measures and economic policies that are beneficial to children and childlikes have followed year, but unfortunately the number of newborn people has decreased.Last year, the overall fertility rate of residents set a minimum of 0.97, and it has entered a stage of shrinking population!The prime minister's alerts have repeatedly spent the spring breeze and disappeared.
To reverse the fertility rate of Singapore, you have to understand the cause of the current situation first, so as to do the right medicine, so as not to shout to the empty, everything is stunned.
The reasons for the low fertility rate of Singapore are many aspects. The most commonly heard and the policies we see are concentrated to shorten the waiting time that suits them, as well as allowances and children's preschool education expenses.There are many concerns and concerns such as economic development, and there are no comprehensive solutions.The official data clearly states that the policies and measures so far are like itching of boots and failed to solve the problem of problem.
The Singaporeans are full of "love". Many corners are not lacking in the men and women of Lang Qingmei, and they can be paid in the pair;Repeated relative relaxation, allowing each unit to adopt more pets.In the case of breeding children, these loves are passing the water, deviating from the sun, and getting farther and farther.Do we really have the hope of drooling water?
Faced with severe challenges, it is precisely when the traditional frames are out to find an ingenious governance method, and replacing the itching of the boots with a large sword.
For more than 30 years, I have been closely in contact with many prospective grandmothers from the 1980s to 2000s, and found that many women have transmitted a concept of "parents are very difficult for parents".Give birth to a child!I know this because of the prospective grandmother of that generation. When I was young, I experienced social turmoil and poor days when I was young.
Mother's influence on children is a well -known fact.Some people told me that when they met with young friends in the past, they patted each other's shoulders and asked if they added another baby.This kind of mantra has disappeared now.From 2000 to the present period, the prospective grandmother and ladies have different experiences, but they have faced another dilemma. They not only can not be married with economic independence and ambitious children, let alone children.Female!However, I found that this adversity is not a foregone conclusion, and it is also the entry point for policy development.
Recently, a mother came to me for an example, with a 24 -year -old daughter.My mother asked my retirement plan if she could take care of the health of her daughter in the future, and asked me to give her daughter some good suggestions.I understand the meaning of my mother's words, and talked to her daughter. She was easy to easily and had a stable job and talked about her dream and plan.I came in while I said that there was no 100 % beautiful thing in the world. When dealing with life affairs, I had to catch the opportunity to get married when I encountered Ruyi Langjun.This pair of mothers and daughters left with satisfaction without a stressful talk.
The relationship between mother and daughter is most conducive to helping her daughter build a solid willingness and mentality.Policy makers should pay attention to how to support the role of elders in promoting the next generation of fertility, professional help modern mothers, talk to children about marriage with children without pressure, and plans to give birth to children.
On the other hand, if each couple chooses to fertility, there are their own reasons. Some of them do not want their children, some are wives who do not want to get pregnant, and like -minded couples should not have children together.They are indifferent to the current policy rewards, but under the reward, they must have brave husbands, and the couples who help swaying will go to the way of childbirth.
Of course, everyone can have the freedom of choice, and insist on not having children.In the era of human rights, their choices are understandable, but from the perspective of social fairness, they will not be able to exempt the cost of enjoying freedom in the future!
In a low fertility country, the population is rapid and aging, and the social and economic burden expands, but the source of the country's economic sources depends on the young people who have shrinking people, making people have to worry about a day when economic collapse.One of the good strategies that are in danger of being dangerous, to prevent the existing children from investing and cultivating, allowing them to use their innovation capabilities and have higher productivity to create the wealth of the country.
Investment and cultivation children must start from pregnancy, including taking care of the health and benefits of pregnant women. They must also deepen and earnestly understand the importance of the first year of care for newborns.In the first year of production, full salaries are treated, so that they can nurture young babies at home wholeheartedly.At the same time, primary and secondary schools currently have almost free systems, and should also extend to preschool education for young children.
After returning to the workplace, the employer can handle it as appropriate to provide telescopic working hours, home office, etc., so that the mother can not be outdated in labor and can take care of the children in person.
These measures undoubtedly require huge funds, but this is to invest in the future of the country. It must be jointly borne by the whole people. Infertility Chinese people must bear higher responsibility.For a long time, families with young children have endured punitive dedication, and the "free travel" nationals enjoy the ease of ease, which is an unequal social phenomenon.The importance of the social responsibility of equal manufacturing is not to be underestimated to eliminate the situation of "looking for fertility and stop". It is even a top priority.
The author is a professor of obstetrics and gynecology
