Source: Zhongxin.com
At the National Day in China, it was also a good time for weddings.In addition to the newcomer, this "eleventh", the important figure at the wedding, the bridesmaids and groomsmen are also busy for the upcoming wedding.What should I do if I can't find the bridesmaids?The young people who love to make a lively and eat mats have created a emerging profession -professional bridesmaid (Lang).
From "Live", "Want to Square" to a career
At the "Eleventh" holiday, there are more newcomers who have held weddings. The female college student Zhu Qing (pseudonym) is waiting for the next bride's invitation on the trading platform.
"I saw someone hanging a post, and I wanted to participate, so I copied it and pasted a copy, so I started." Zhu Qing is a very energetic person.It is also because of free to eat a seat, so it was the idea of becoming a professional bridesmaid.
The bridesmaid rental service on the trading platform
Because they are still in school, Zhu Qing only picks up the school's local and hometown orders.A single single 288 yuan, a round -trip toll or pick -up, and the night before the wedding, and the day before the wedding, coupled with the red envelope received by the wedding day.
As a professional bridesmaid, Zhu Qing was responsible for guiding the planning to pick up the game before the wedding and guided the newcomers to buy game props.The day before the wedding, the rehearsal to pick up the kiss game, generally requires the groom to answer questions about the bride, or the two people eat a thread tied to the fruit, etc., but also arrange the wedding room. According to Zhu Qing, Too a coincidence. "On the wedding day, follow the bride to get things.
The process seems simple, but after a few wedding, Zhu Qing found that even if the bridesmaid is not the main role at the wedding, there are many "doorway" inside.Generally speaking, the bridesmaids should not be too beautiful and too high, and they should not be too ugly and short, and they seem to be incompatible with the bride.As such a settings, Zhu Qing is very professional.
In the process of picking up the relatives, in order to welcome the bride, the groom will give the woman's relatives, friends and bridesmaids a red envelope.In order to activate the atmosphere of relatives, Zhu Qing will participate in the red envelope symbolically, but will not grab the front.There is a session of "Tibetan Wedding Shoes" in the local wedding. The groom should hold a red envelope to ask where the wedding shoes are. After finding it, you can put it on the bride to walk. At this time, Zhu Qing will not participate in the wedding shoes, but will put thisTake the opportunity to take the red envelope to the real relatives and friends of the bride.After the wedding, Zhu Qinghui and the bride discussed whether to return the red envelopes and "blocking door" red envelopes given by the families of the two parties. In order to repay her, the bride usually let her accept it.
At the wedding, the photographer would follow the bride with the bride. As the bride's "classmate", "colleague", and "friend", Zhu Qing naturally took a photo with the bride."For ourselves, the bride says what the relationship is, what is the relationship, and the bride can not say the initiative without opening, try to talk as little as possible anyway." According to Zhu Qing, some rural weddings are more particular about face. If you know that the bridesmaid is renting,If you come, you will seem that the bride is not good, and he does not even have a sister. "Especially when the relatives of the man asked, they would conceal them, otherwise they would be considered" no one at home in the woman's family. "Zhu Qing gradually learned to disguise himself smoothly, fuzzy handling or fabricating a identity.
"As long as I have the opportunity, I will continue to do it." I can make money, I can make fun, free to eat, and go home to see my parents along the way.Intersection
Contradiction and movement
No matter how well you are, you will still be busy on the day of the wedding. It is inevitable that there is contradiction, especially in the process of picking up the relatives.
Zhu Qing has encountered several times.Once, with the wedding, the best man did not know the "rules" of picking up relatives. When the woman's relatives and friends blocked the door, they rushed in. In order to want a red envelope, the road to picking up the game was hidden.Some bridesmaid rushed up to grab props and had a dispute with the best man. Between the time, the bridesmaids were scratched, and the atmosphere suddenly became awkward.
"If you encounter contradictions, solve it humblely, you must not follow the trouble, the scene is chaotic, and the face of the newcomer will not look good." In this case, Zhu Qing will stand aside and wait for the cameraman to come.The game naturally starts, and the people who Tibetan props will naturally take out the props.In addition, she will not personally participate in the "blocking door" that may have collisions, which is generally done by the woman's relatives.
To sum up in Zhu Qing's words, as a professional bridesmaid, you cannot actively create and participate in contradictions.
Wedding is a combination of world feelings. There are laughter and tears, and there are contradictions and movements.The most touched wedding of Zhu Qing is about the friendship between a bride and her bridesmaid.
In September not long ago, a bride contacted Zhu Qing.Because of the far away and late marriage, some of the bride's sisters were in the field, and some had become family members, so they had to entrust Zhu Qing as a bridesmaid.But at the wedding, a bride's sister still rushed from the country with the child.Zhu Qing noticed that she was dusty, she was wearing and makeup, and she had to take care of her children from time to time, but her eyes did not leave the bride and kept taking a picture of the bride wearing a wedding dress.She was helping to do this all day. It wasn't until Zhu Qing greeted her to eat, and she ate a little.
"At that moment, I felt that it shouldn't be me standing next to the bride." Zhu Qing was moved by this friendship. She felt that this important moment should be witnessed by the real sisters.
After the wedding, Zhu Qing posted a post on the social platform."I also hope that my girlfriend can come to my wedding, and I will cry for their sincere blessings. The true feelings are not easy, I hope newcomers will do it and cherish it." She wrote so.
New Professional Derivation of Wedding New Demand
Due to late marriage, Xu Ning (pseudonym) was not found to find bridesmaids near the "Eleventh" marriage, and finally spent 500 yuan to rent one.According to her requirements, the bridesmaids should not be too short or too high. They must also meet their own characters.Even if Xu Ning has various requirements, he can find bridesmaids that can match herself.
In addition to the professional bridesmaids who have scattered orders on the platform like Zhu Qing, with the new demand emerging from the wedding market, the bridesmaid rental agencies have appeared, gathered by girls willing to become bridesmaids, and they are with the bride and the bride.Bridge.
The bridesmaid lease intermediaries have appeared
21 -year -old Wu Qian (pseudonym) is very experienced as a bridesmaid. She has already had more than 50 weddings. In addition, she also runs a bridesmaid studio on social platforms, she will have their own characteristic bridesmaids.Docking is for brides with different needs.Wu Qian's studio has ordinary, intermediate and senior bridesmaids, ranging from 358 yuan to 488 yuan. The higher the fee, the more experience in the bridesmaids, the more services provided.Among them, some senior bridesmaids have experienced the work experience of wedding housekeepers. They can provide a full -process service for the bride at the wedding. They can also help contact and dock the "four King Kong" (the emcee, makeup artist, photographer and cameraler).
Chinanews.com also contacted a bridesmaid company that currently has tens of thousands of professional bridesmaids to provide wedding services for newcomers across the country.Compared with ordinary leasing agencies, the company's bridesmaids and groomsmen must pass the training assessment, and the lease contract will be signed with the newcomers to determine the candidates.
"Professional bridesmaids accompanied by the new needs of weddings, corresponding to such a market demand, and new workers have arisen. I think this is a manifestation of a refined labor division of labor."Zhang Chenggang, director of the China New Employment Forms Research Center, talked in an interview with Chinanews.com that the use of a market -oriented plan to solve the problem of wedding problems has higher efficiency.Please friends and relatives and so on.
At the same time, at the critical moment of the wedding, this market -oriented method needs to be adoptedZhang Chenggang felt a little pessimistic."For the bride and groom, I must hope that the closest to those who are closest to become bridesmaids, but because everyone's time is so nervous and the cost of being a girlfriend is too high, in this case"Zhang Chenggang said.
For this emerging lease form, Zhang Chenggang believes that there is not a labor employment relationship between the girlfriend and the newcomer, but the civil relationship of equal, so the market should be allowed to develop fully.When it develops to a relatively large scale, corresponding industry guidance may occur, but more depends on the market to adjust.
