Source: China Youth Daily

Author: Liu Yan

A little girl disappeared by the sea, and the lively holiday just ended, leaving a worrying suspense.

On October 4th, the 4 and a half -year -old girl core and their family went to Pudong Nanhui New Town Beach in Shanghai.In the early morning of the next day, her father posted online to find women and asked netizens to help.

The father's statement was that he asked his daughter who was playing at the beach to wait alone. When he left to get his mobile phone, when he returned more than 10 minutes later, his daughter was disappeared.Mother said to the media that she and her grandmother had been on the shore to take care of another young child.

At the beginning, many netizens believed that long holidays and crowds of crowds are probably a "common" "scattered" incident, and children can be found quickly.Some netizens provided the video materials taken on the same beach that afternoon, trying to put together the whereabouts of the core, and there are similar figures in the picture.

The bright blue dress makes more and more people feel worried.

Since then, the Shanghai Police notified that the possibility of the core was initially excluded from others. The suspected figure in the image "waited for about 10 minutes in place, walked towards the water, and disappeared after falling by the water."In the waves".

Police organized a large number of police forces along the coast to launch a pull -net search. The fire department dispatched infrared induction drones. Rescuers conducted several days of search. So far, the traces of cores have not been found.

People can't understand why a father left the 4 -year -old child alone on the beach -it was too dangerous.

The father explained to the media that his daughter had fun at the sea. He wanted to record and returned to the shore to pick up his mobile phone.He said that he wanted to go back quickly, but he was cut to the toe by the stone on the road, delaying time.The core of the core said that there are many people on the beach, and she can't see the situation of the distant daughter.This is the first time that a family has come to Shanghai Nanhui Beach to play.

In the photos posted by the members of the Blue Sky Rescue Team participating in the rescue, some of the blood stains that Mr. Huang was injured when looking for a child, two blood left on the stone, and the guidance of him at the scene.The words of the father.

Reports show that Mr. Huang said that the beach photos currently collected and finally confirmed at the core figure were set at 17:53, and the suspected drowning screen found by the police was taken at 17:54.Another netizen provided a photo that was taken at 18:06: a young child with similar dresses, the outline of the dress and the core, stood alone on the beach.

As more information is disclosed, the public opinion field at this time has become the square of the family members of the public trial."The girl was once discarded and he was the stepfather of the girl." This remark came from the "self -conscious insider" on the square, but it was quickly confirmed to be a rumor; "She also has a younger brother, the family must not be attentive, maybeI don't want her "— the" conspiracy theorist "in the people is talking about;Death crime! "The" accusors "in the crowd began to promote trials, and there was a situation that his father had lost his job and forced him to pay for his daughter.

Some people also issued a stop voice: "Don't forget. After the teacher's school was drove down and died by the teacher in Wuhan, his mother died because of the Internet violent."After half a year, after losing the child, the mother hurried from the unit to be interviewed by the media. Netizens conducted a malicious evaluation of her dressing and makeup, thinking that she did not meet a mother who had just lost her child.She also accused her of being calm, clear, and dressed so exquisitely for her heat, so that she would open live and bring goods in the future.A week later, the mother fell down.

Soon, the refutation of indignation appeared in the crowd: "Can you be the same? That mother has no responsibility, but this dad's problem is obvious."

It is related to the safety of children's lives, people should be filled with indignation.However, the girls have not been found, and related investigations and treatment are still underway, and many facts have not been restored.If the guess of the "conspiracy theory" is a premeditated intentional killing, just like the case where the Chongqing man drops his biological children down the 15th floor, will always leave clues; if the child's father is only a moment of great intention, whether it constitutes a loss and causes it to cause loss and causeThe crime of death is also relatively controversial.

Our anger and heartbreak before turning into words, please wait.

Parents need to assume their duties to minors, and many practical cases, including this incident, indicate again and again that the negligence and career will probably put the child in a huge risk and cause the child to cause it to cause it to cause the risk to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause the risk to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause the risk to cause it to cause it to cause it to cause the child to causeParents regret the tragedy of life.In recent years, the tragedies that have not been seen in recent years, such as parents who leave their children alone at home and in the car, have also given the legal community a call for the establishment of "negligence to take care of children."

Protecting children is a controversial consensus.

The Protection Law of the Chinese Minor Parents stipulates that parents or other guardians of minors should provide life, health, and safety for minors.Article 36 of the Civil Code also stipulates that when the guardian appears to perform the supervisor's duties, or fails to fulfill the duties of the monitoring, and refuses to entrust the duties of the monitoring or all to others, when the guardian is in a state of crisis, etc.Or the application of the organization, the elimination of the guardian's qualifications, arrange the necessary temporary guardianship measures, and designate the guardian in accordance with the principle that the guardian is most conducive to the guardian -however, the basic premise of the implementation of the law is that the core can come back.

Laws in some US states will ignore children's health or even properly take care of children as criminal crimes.In Australia, parents leave their children under the age of 12 at home or let their children travel alone. They are found and reported to the police by neighbors and social workers. Parents may face allegations.In Hong Kong, if the guardian leaves the child at home or separated from the guardian controllers, no matter if there is serious consequences, it will constitute a crime.

We watched foreign film and television dramas, and we often see such a scene: in the neighborhood, who heard the child crying, adults noisy, regardless of the relationship, we will check or call the police directly.In the past, we still hesitated, "Can you manage other people's affairs, can you manage it, and go a spare thing." Now we are very clear. Children are the common responsibilities of the whole society for children to protect children.

In addition to the negligence of the father's father, we may wish to pay more attention in life. When we encounter a minor who is suspected of no one to take care of or may be in danger, stop and ask more.Maybe a word, a call can save a life.For the people around the core, this may be a kind of blame. This is not an obligation, and it has nothing to do with responsibility, but the simple emotion of "young and young and young" can promote us to do it.

Another thing that attracted attention during the "Eleventh" period gave us a similar revelation.According to on -site surveillance video, a boy in Yanyuan, Sichuan, drowned in the swimming pool because of the swimming ring, from his struggle to the ending ashore, for 10 minutes, no one rescued.The "judges" on the public opinion field also set off a criticism of "seeing officials" around the boy -if people around them can find and extend their hands in time, the ending may be different.

Maybe, some people take a look at it in 3 seconds, and some people do not have to write a carefully word -of -word online criticism on one day in the future.