"Po County" has obvious dwarfing Singapore's intention. The author believes that all words that are dwarfed, insulted and even evoke the painful memory of the parties should be avoided, such as A San, Beigu, Bay Bay, Hard Disk, Northern Jiangsu, northern JiangsuGery, support, and so on.The civilized society speaks of civilization and does not advocate violence.Of course, endless cyber violence is the most headache in the Internet era.
In recent years, some new immigrants have verbally called Singapore as "Po County", which has always been controversial.Lianhe Zaobao will publish Wang Huidi's article "Po County" on October 7!It is a response.The author has three observations on this issue: the nature of the incident is like giving people a nickname and nickname. The principle is to ask the parties' wishes. If the parties are unwilling to be called the nickname, it is a speech bully.Further study the psychological principles behind the parties.Finally, beware of the incident to rise to the suspicion of the ethnic group or even conflict.
If the Singaporeans are unwilling to be called the county, it is a speech bullying.For example, the New Zealanders are called Kiwi, but the subjective willingness is fine; unwilling to be bullying.The method of solving bullying is usually dominated by dominance and violence. Of course, it is not advocated by a civilized society, and it should be returned to the principle of affairs in a civilized society.
United Morning News Social Media Review Zone has such an argument: "It's not tightly called", which is wrong.Attacking each other and violent violence can easily make the small incident bigger and the contradiction intensifies.For example, there is a little fat man in the class. You give him a nickname "bun". He is unwilling, but you think that the word "bun" is not insulted. This is to ignore the feelings of the other party.In turn, he calls you "Tian Chicken", and the contradictions intensify.Society is not your own home. In addition to "I think", you must also observe.
Respect a principle: The party's wishes should be the number of social conventions.Even if you call me "fairy", in your opinion, I can see me, sorry, I don't like it, I have a name.As long as the parties feel embarrassed and uncomfortable, they should not be imposed on others. Even if they are not so serious, they should not be used for evil.
"Po County" has the intention of dwarfing Singapore. The author believes that all the words that are dwarfed, insults and even evoke the painful memory of the parties should avoid, such as A San, Beigu, Bay Bay, Hard Disk, Northern Jiangsu, Zhi Na Na Na Na Na Na NaaPeople and other.The civilized society speaks of civilization and does not advocate violence.Of course, endless cyber violence is the most headache in the Internet era.
What kind of psychology is the nickname?He already has a name, but he must give him another nickname.Baidu knows that there is a psychological blogger's analysis: First of all, a kind of inferiority and compensation psychology.Everyone may have inferiority due to their families, living conditions, physical conditions, and poor learning status.People with inferiority often seek compensation. When impulse and good fighting are used as compensation, behavior will show a lighter aggressiveness.
Secondly, the theory of frustration attacks. Everyone in life is more or less aggressive. The greater the setback, the more likely the attack behavior.Once self -esteem is frustrated, it will lead to strong attack.Unwilling to be called nicknames also have psychological basis. For different natures of the nickname, why someone likes and some people dislike, and different personalities have different performances. You can check more research in the field of psychology.
The comment area saw many netizens left a message: I have never called "Po County".This is a point worthy of emphasis.In our world, there are many collectivist influence due to humanistic history.Although the pursuit of truth and the world is a good vision of everyone, the cases of collective abduction and outline are currently staged at this stage.
For extreme examples, the hatred of the Germans and Jews, not all Germans have participated in the slaughter of Jews, but unfortunately, historical events have led to hatred for many years, and individuals seem small and weak among them.Do not hurt the people around you.Still the previous view: civilized society tells civilization, and it is not advocated by violence.
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