Source: Hong Kong Ming Pao.com

The fighting movement has continued to this day, which has caused various impacts on Hong Kong society.The city has changed, and the railings in many places were removed, leaving only iron branches in the middle of the column and the middle of the bar.What is more noteworthy is the tear between interpersonal, and many people suffer from emotional distress such as anxiety, fear, anger, sorrow.I think, just as the railing represents the boundary (Boundary), it has the role of separation. Now the spiritual appearance of Hong Kong people can also be seen as an unbounded situation.

This movement is inseparable from Internet and social platforms.The philosopher Marshall McLuhan believes that the media is an extension of human consciousness (the extensions of manquot; the extensions of manquot;).We can break through the regional boundaries through information technology and receive a lot of information 24 hours.The live news allowed us to be in multiple demonstrations at the same time, and witnessed the conflict from the perspective of the first body.News from all sides are constantly updated, and it is difficult to distinguish between true and false.Many people sleep for meals because of tracking the development of the situation. They forget that they are always flesh and blood. The body and head are limited and need to rest regularly.

Healthy psychology needs to have a clear self. The most basic thing is to be able to distinguish between me and others.However, in this movement, the boundary between me and others became blurred.We can't tell what is our own affairs, other people's affairs, and society. We only feel that there are many things to analyze, judge and express their positions.The information we master is fragmented, but we argue with people on the Internet that we are not good at.We have high investment for strangers, and we are even higher than those we know.People have limited minds, and they are okay to think about themselves, and they should be able to read friends and family members, but they must be too heavy to think of more people and even the whole society.When emotions exceed the load, people will collapse.

The concept of not cutting plays in this movement has played an important role.To some extent, the government does not immediately set up an independent investigation committee.No mats can maintain our unity, but it also endangers its own moral line, because the boundary does not care about ourselves.How can we see that our moral line is migrating?First, we will shift the focus and blame each other first, saying that we are forced by the momentum.Fire Magic and so on.Standing on the eggs pushed the high wall, and then became a high wall itself, what was the meaning?

Should choose to care for social participation in responsibility

At this moment, we still do not know how the fighting movement will evolve and how social tear can be repaired.What we can control is to take care of our boundaries and maintain our integrity.Our physical strength and mind are limited. We have limited mastery of complex things, and our attention and dedication to others are also limited.We must separate emotions and behaviors, suspicion and reason, so that ourselves are not completely dominated by emotions, nor do we make conspiracy ideas that make ourselves out of the ground.Everyone is an individual, like a house, with a door and wall.We can open the door for people to enter or go out.However, when we always take care of our home, we will be disappointed or occupied.Everyone is different and less open for themselves, and there is neither standard nor forced.I do n’t say that everyone should only care about myself, do n’t care about society, but to choose the degree of participation from independent and responsibilities, so as not to let myself lose myself in turbulence.

Text: Ironics, the author is a psychiatrist