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My list of happiness and old age, I believe that there is no different desire to the most people, but to truly live a happy and dignified happy life, the government can guide, practice itself, and also need to sit down with my family to formulate it.A set of "family contracts" that the whole family can accept.
No matter what occasions I have met acquaintances recently, if the other party knows that my child has become a family, he will almost ask me: Is it a grandson?
I always feel a little laughing, and the child is not married for long!
But thinking that I had inadvertently tossed this problem to relatives, friends and colleagues with similar age to children, only realized "Holding Sun?" Actually, it was a greeting, just like "Have you been full?"Or at the New Year, the marriage of men and women was asked if there was an object by relatives, and the childcare couple was asked if they planned to have children, so they were so rare.
In addition, I found that I had a little resistance to this greeting. The reason was that they were not used to a new identity, and they unconsciously "unknown the old is coming."
However, the government's commitments and new measures to assist the elderly in their later years, but they involuntarily pay more attention.
Vice Prime Minister and Minister of Finance Huang Xuncai stated in the fiscal budget statement that they will study how to better care for the elderly. In addition to taking care of their medical care and retirement life, they can also allow them to be elegant, dignified and safe and safe.Feel the pension in place.
With the aging population, the provident fund system will be strengthened year by year, so that people can save more savings for retirement.The elderly nursing funds and community age funds will receive more funding to support relevant elderly care services.About 850,000 people who meet the conditions of income and housing conditions are also one more living expenses than others -the age of age.
Singapore reached 2030, and the one -quarter population age will be over 65 years old, and the society is seriously aging.The update version of the happy aging aging action plan published two weeks before the budget was announced, and it was mentioned that various actions will be carried out around three aspects: care, contribution and connection.Wishes, continue to contribute to society, do not disconnect with the times, and help them care for them as much as possible.
I also listed myself a list of happiness and age. I look forward to entering the year of ears and ancient years, and then entering the year of the puppet, and I can live a happy life.This includes good health and no major illness; there is a tile covering head, no trouble of mortgage; there is enough savings to worry about three meals and various expenses; the spiritual life is full, and there are rich art and sports activities to participate.
In addition, love, affection, and friendship are indispensable.Cherish the days when you spend the white head with his wife, the children's filial piety, family harmony, and friends intersect.
But in the huge older population, how many people can truly live "age" to live "age", which is unknown.A survey made by about 7,000 seniors in August last year in August last year, nearly half of the survey of about 7,000 seniors was forced to reduce living standards due to rising living expenses;Fees, water and electricity costs and prescription drug costs.
Social and economic status is particularly worried about the elderly who are weak, sick or unemployed, and retired.
Some people do not know what to do if they encounter problems.Community Age Fund and the elderly care fund and other targeted funds have been filled in more, allowing the government to better use the resources of community and civil society to help the people who need help.
However, some things can always be resolved by family members, such as parent -child relationships, disputes between mother -in -law and mother -in -law, and parenting contradictions.
Lianhe Zaobao Communication Edition recently published a letter entitled to the family with a treasure.The author mentioned that many dual -paying families now ask their parents to work for the best care of their children, but the elderly parents who retirement are not good for their physical strength and spirit, and it is difficult to cope.He advised his children to think more for parents. Don't blindly think that parents are the most free and trusted "maids and nannys", and they should not deprive them of their leisure time after retirement.
The phenomenon of the author's appeal is difficult to determine, but it shows that there is no good communication between the elders and the juniors, and it also affects the retirement life that "old parents" cannot live in the text.
My list of happiness and old age, I believe that there is no different desire to the most people, but to truly live a happy and dignified happy life, the government can guide, practice itself, and also need to sit down with my family to formulate it.A set of "family contracts" that the whole family can accept.
According to the contract, such as the distribution of personal property, medical care, and time arrangement, they must be self -restrained, comply with the rules, mutual, understand, coordinate, and tolerate their family members.In this way, the elders in the family and their ideals in their old age will be a little closer.
(The author is the Assistant Editor -in -Chief of the United Zard at
