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During the epidemic period, in my small social circle, there were four pairs of young people from the 90s announced their divorce, and a pair of announcement of the invalidation agreement for marriage.Two of them have a family after divorce.Divorce became a topic for a while.

It feels different in the previous era and concepts, especially if young people have no children and asset allocation after they get married, they have no big problems.Some can also wait for the minimum residence period of the five -year house of the group house, sell the wedding room as a breakup fee!More seamlessly transferred to another new marriage "spare tire" in advance!In short, it is good to get together, and everyone generally accepts divorce and remarry.

Divorce is quite common in European and American countries.Studies have shown that the US divorce rate has declined year by year after reaching its peak in the 1980s. It is said that millennial young people are more cautious about marriage and may also be related to more and more people who choose to live together without getting married.South Korea in Asia later ranks one of the countries with a global high divorce rate.There are many social problems caused by divorce.

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Divorce, which is not necessarily related to the pressure of life caused by high development, social openness or high living expenses, and cannot be separated from factors such as the improvement of education and popularization of feminism, changes in moral concepts and social norms.But there is a puzzling that now that social is open and free, many young couples have known each other for many years. Before marriage, they should have a deep understanding of each other. Why do they choose to break up within three or five years of marriage?Is it really difficult to live with each other, or is it like the new and hate the old?

The data of the Singapore Statistical Bureau in 2021 shows that the number of registered marriages increased from 22,651 in 2020 to 28,329 pairs.The couple ended the marriage also increased from 6959 in 2020 to 7890 pairs, an increase of 13.4%.The marriage rate has increased compared to 10 years ago.The phenomenon of late marriage continues.The increase in marriage rate may be related to the restart of the application for the previously delayed processing.It is worth noting that the definition algorithm of the divorce rate in different countries is slightly different. Some algorithms are divided by the total number of divorce divorced by the total number of marriage, but the total number of divorce is divided by the total population of 15 years old or divided by their own marriage.Based on the population of women, it will be confused in comparison.Taking the United States as an example, the divorce rate in the past 50 years has declined, and some scholars believe that it is because the marriage rate is also declining.

Statistics show that the overall local divorce rate is still lower than 10 years ago.The median age of divorce men and women has also increased.Men rose from 41.3 in 2011 to 43.9 years; women's median rose from 37.7 to 40.The median of the divorce couple maintained the marriage was 10.7 years, which was slightly longer than 10.5 years ago.This is similar to that of the United States, such as the United States. It seems that the silver -haired tribe's determination to "regain freedom" has increased.

Local couples who divorced after five to nine years of marriage still account for the maximum rate at 29.8%.The divorce of seniors usually face the problem of more complicated children, alimony and asset distribution.If young people do not agree, the social problems caused by the division cannot be underestimated. After divorce, they may face difficulties in living with their parents.Some elderly people are also facing the old difficulties.

The calculation of the divorce rate usually does not contain invalid marriage and withdrawal of marriage.In the invalid marriage lawsuit, the two sides must prove that marriage is illegal or invalid from the beginning.In Singapore, declaration of marriage invalidation is based on the reason that the marriage is invalid or withdrawn from Article 105 and 106 of the Women's Charter.Announced that the invalidity of marriage will have major consequences, so the law has strict requirements for the invalidation of marriage to announce the invalidity of marriage.These standards are different due to whether marriage is invalid or withdrawal.Different from invalid marriage, it is legally valid that the removal of marriage is not as effective as one party applies for invalidation.

Singapore is one of the few countries that provide obvious protection for women with the women's charter.According to the first announcement of the divorce application data involved in the nationality of the Singapore Family Judiciary Court, the husband and wife are all the divorce applications of Singapore citizens decrease year by year, from 67%of the total in 2011 to 59%in 2016, and it has remained at 59 since 2016%.Does this mean that the women's charter not only protects women or disadvantaged groups, to a certain extent, it will increase the difficulty of divorce and make those who want to divorce more cautious?

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Report also pointed out that the ratio of his wife's proposal remained stable, with 63.8%and 64.7%in 2021 and 2011, respectively.This is a bit unexpected. Women's initiative to divorce to find a better life seems to have become a trend.This may be attributed to good economy and education in the past 20 years.But it is undeniable that divorce often causes hidden physical and mental harm.Society must always pay attention to and give enough care and support.

There is only one reason to divorce in Singapore, which is that the marriage has "irreparable rupture".According to Article 95 (3) of the Women's Charter, the lawsuit must convince the court to believe that one of the following five facts: that is, adultery, unreasonable behavior, abandonment of one party, at least three years of separation, and agreed to divorce, or the two parties separate for at least four years.In addition, it takes three months to apply for divorce and divorce for at least three years to be finalized.

Considering that these five options often mean that one party should be accused, the women's charter (amendment) bill passed on January 10, 2022, in addition to the existing five reasons for divorce, add six reasons,That is, "the two sides agreed that the marriage was ruptured until it was irreparable."This means that the husband and wife will jointly bear the responsibility of the marriage failure, and there is no need to go through the divorce procedures as the opponent and the defense.This largely protects children from being influenced by the hostility between parents and made a friendly arrangement.

The fact that the six reasons for the introduction of agreement divorce (DMA) do not mean that the divorce is because it is easy.The efforts of the two sides have arranged affiliated matters such as supporting children and marriage assets.If the judge believes that the reason for divorce is not sufficient, he has the right to reject the divorce agreement and require the two parties to accept counseling or mediation.

I once laughed and asked my colleagues and friends who were married around, do you remember the vows you read on the day of marriage?I was ignored!Perhaps the newcomers should spend some time before registering to get married in the future, so that this sacred vow will not be reduced to another ritual program.

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