Source: Beijing Youth Daily
New Year's Eve, always visiting relatives and friends who always have money to give their juniors money.This is not just a kind of "flavor of the year", but also a traditional culture. Who should he control the "New Year's money" received by the child?
The more you New Year's money, the more you get, what should you do if you get the New Year's money?Children are more inclined to dominate the money by themselves, and parents have their own considerations. They feel that the child is small, has no concept of money, does not have financial management capabilities, and is afraid of losing.
Considering the age of children, many parents choose to keep the New Year's money on their behalf and use it for their daily expenses.Lawyers said that according to the Chinese Civil Code, children are owners of the New Year's money.
After the child is born, he has civil rights capabilities and can get benefits. During the holidays, he received the elders' New Year's money. The ownership of money must be owned by the child.The Civil Code stipulates that children are under the age of eight years of age. Generally speaking, before the age of eight years old, it is possible to keep the money by the parents.Acts that are consistent.Whether it is the child's own custody or the parents' custody of the New Year's money, the ownership will not be changed. It must belong to the child.
The psychological counselor of the Nanjing Tao Teacher Workstation said that New Year's money is the good wishes of the elders for their children.If parents do not trust their children and take up New Year's money as their own, it is easy to stimulate their children's loss.
Children are sometimes not worried about money being taken away, but that they think that it is completely disliked to themselves. They do not treat themselves as a individual worthy of respect. They are unacceptable and unhappy.The issue of New Year's money is the issue of communicating and interacting with children, and the problem of using money to strengthen the communication and communication of parent -child.
Psychological counselors suggested that parents can take the New Year's money as an opportunity to enlighten their children's financial business enlightenment and allow them to gain awareness of the owner in the family expenses.
First of all, parents can help their children to open a bank card with a child name, let him see his own account. When the money is put in the bank, it is a process of communication, management or guidance;
Second, this money can be used for children's daily expenses, such as special class and art classes, which can be paid with this money;
In addition, children can also allow children to participate in the daily management of the family. For example, what plans are there in the family in the year and what large devices to buy can allow children to participate.If you participate and pay, you can cultivate the owner's consciousness well.
