Early new tone of sea cavity
Yang Danxu
The crown disease epidemic forced the husband and wife to get along with each other, and the two sides finally saw each other clearly and decided that the rest of their lives would not be?
A few days ago, a news that Shenzhen divorced appointment was difficult to find the impact of the impact of the crown epidemic on marriage became a topic.Chinese media reported that in the reservation system of the Shenzhen Civil Affairs Bureau's website, the divorce appointment business was all full. Before mid -June, one of the remaining places was gone.
According to statistics from the Southern Metropolis Daily, from January to April this year, the number of divorce registrations in Shenzhen exceeded 80 % of the marriage pairs in the same period. This proportion will not exceed one -third in previous years.Some Shenzhen citizens still report on the Internet that they want to get divorce, and they can't make an appointment for several consecutive months.
The crown disease has been accused of rising the number of divorce more than once in the near future.In March and April of this year, the Chinese media reported that the divorce appointment in Xi'an, Shijiazhuang, Shanghai and other places was full after the epidemic, and public opinion summarized this phenomenon as revenge divorce after the epidemic.
Divorce appointment No. 1 is difficult to find business backlogs and current restriction control. The epidemic does change life, allowing marriage to face the test, and even the crisis broke out.
During the epidemic, some husbands and wives faced each other under the same roof 24 hours a day. Not only did they not enhance their feelings, but they disappeared the beauty of the previous distance.In particular, many marriages were originally undercurrent. The husband and wife spent a long time, and the friction and contradictions intensified. Some problems that could not be seen before became unavoidable.
Some female netizens talked about it that they used to comfort their husbands too busy and did not have time to take care of the family. During the epidemic, the husband was isolated at home and did not work. He did not bring the child. He had to wait for three meals a day. Finally, he saw the true face of her husband.
Crown disease has also become a test stone for some marriage. Originally, the husband and wife should suffer from difficulties, but some people found that during the epidemic situation, they caught a cold and cough.collapse.
In more extreme cases, family members have been together for a long time during the city seal, increasing the chance of domestic violence; the pressure of life brought by the epidemic can also easily lead to emotional out of control and become the fuse of intimate terrorism.Such a secondary disaster not only happened in China, but also a social problem all over the world under the public health crisis.
How much divorce after the epidemic is caused by the inception of the epidemic, and it may have to be left for sociologists to study, but it is an indisputable fact that the Chinese divorce rate is increasing.
After China's reform and opening up, many people's concepts have changed dramatically, especially young people in the 80s and post -90s, no longer regard divorce as stains of life, changes in values, enhancement of self -awareness, open lifestyle, and social division of labor and traditions of men and women's social divisions and traditionsThe changes in family functions have made Chinese society's acceptance of divorce.Data from the Ministry of Civil Affairs of China also show that China's divorce rate has risen for 15 consecutive years.
With the discussion of retaliatory divorce, these two days of public opinion have also been hotly discussing the divorce and cooling period.
The draft of the Civil Code, known as the encyclopedia of social life, will be submitted to the National Congress of the National Two Council (the National People's Congress and the CPPCC Annual Conference) this year.This category that provides legal basis for life and trivial matters is naturally indispensable for marriage.
According to CCTV news reports, the part of the marriage of the Civil Code will introduce a deserved period of divorce. It is clear that within 30 days from the date of receiving the divorce registration application from the marriage registration authority, any party may withdraw the divorce registration application.The intention of doing this is to set the time threshold for the divorce to reduce the divorce and impulse divorce.
Interestingly, most Chinese netizens do not support divorce and calm period.Some people are worried that the calm period will extend the tragedy of the family, and some women may suffer greater harm during the calm period; others believe that the cooling period is the interference of freedom of divorce. If the impulse divorce regrets, there will always be a remarriage choice. Why pay back?Do you have a divorce and calm period?
When the same Chinese friend talked about this, she saw another role of divorce's calm period: increasing the cost of buying a house to buy a house.The friend lamented: In the future, divorce to buy a house must be planned early.She also said with confidence that most of the recent rushing to register for divorce to buy a house for the curve.
These jokes also revealed that the Chinese people's unique reason to divorce mdash; mdash; game game with policy.In the early years, when many parts of China introduced real estate purchase restriction and loan restriction measures, people ran to divorce in order to buy a house. These were still news at the time, and now they are no wonder.In order to drill policies to divorce the drama, it will be performed more than when buying a house?Applying for minimum insurance, compensation for demolition, evasion of debt, taxes, and all kinds of interests related to interests may become a reason for divorce in China.
Therefore, the divorce of the Chinese is much more complicated than imagined, and the social problems behind it are not as simple as emotional disputes and family contradictions.If all the problems of divorce rising are blamed for crown disease, it is not fair to crown disease, and the epidemic is also shouting; and expecting to save the complicated marriage of the Chinese in the calm period of divorce, it seems too optimistic.
