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Jingqiang Xinyun
Do middle -aged people have the right to make a "waste"?
This is a topic of hot discussion among Chinese Internet users.I noticed that these discussions were because of the recent news: Many social accounts of Chinese Internet celebrity scholars Chu Yin were briefly banned.The specific reasons for the platform forbidden to say are unknown. Some people speculate that it may be because Chu Yin dares to say.
As a scholar who frequently traveled to major social media platforms and participated in Variety shows such as Qi Qi, Chu Yin often received much attention for controversial remarks and even searched for scolding.For example, he had suggested that a single woman who did not run in the big city returned to his hometown early. He also defended the young people "lying down". He also suggested that he would not study after the age of 28.
Chu Yin's recent controversy is about whether middle -aged people after the age of 35 should be able to make "waste" and whether they have the right to make "waste".
In the early days of this month, Chu Yin felt when he talked about the pressure of middle -aged people in a live broadcast of social platforms.He said: "Adults have the right to make a waste. We don't want children to be waste, because they still have a future. After 35 years of age, they are still very comfortable to make waste.Don't be ashamed because you are a waste. It is useless to be useless when you are old, what are you embarrassed? "
As soon as this remark came out, it was immediately sent to hot search.In the Chinese public opinion field with the main melody of positive energy, these words sound harsh.There are public criticism that Chu Yin is a public figure with millions of fans. He was also a university professor. How can he advocate that middle -aged people give up so much?Moreover, using "waste" to describe people in itself is a kind of disrespect.Some media bombarded, Chu Yin's remarks are "a serious nonsense"; there are also people who are ridiculous, since it is very comfortable to be a "waste", "Why do you fight so every day, it's a show, and a smaller video every day?"
Chu Yin responded in the social media: "In our society, many people are under great pressure, and many meaningless internal rolls destroy our lives. We have the right to make a waste in this sense.Good, comfort. That's all. "
He comforts the middle -aged people: "Don't be difficult to make yourself, don't force yourself to succeed, don't be trapped in frustration, and worry about himself as a mediocre ordinary person./P>
He still sighed, the Chinese people's life "too tired, too rolled, too many people are tossing invalid", "Ask himself, can you find your freedom and self -consistent life in a slightly bland day.Happiness? "
I am afraid that it is not equal to ordinary and making a "waste". It is also questionable whether it should be described as "waste" to describe the state of life that is not tossing.But these words did hit the pain points of Chinese society, and said that many middle -aged people's hearts were said.Compared with the attack of mainstream public opinion, there are many people who believe that Chu Yin's "roughness is not rough" in social media, and some people even describe it. This is "a big truth."
Following the discussion of "waste" in the middle -aged people, it is a copy of the discussion that young people should lie flat in these years.The sound of "waste" is actually the emotional fermentation of burnout internal rolls and wanting to avoid anxiety.
I returned to Singapore not long ago, and someone asked me: "Are Chinese young people really lying down '?" I laughed. In fact, young people in China are often more "rolled" compared to young people in Singapore.My friend puzzled: "Then why do they often say‘ lying down ’?”.I said that because I couldn't lie flat, I had to hang "lying down" to my mouth.
Similarly, why is the middle -aged people who want to "abandon"?Many middle -aged people in this group are "post -75" and "post -80s". They face the back waves in the workplace; they are the mainstay in the home.Marriage, family, children's education, and various troubles in work are less than that of young people.Some people describe that when they were young, they were strong and had no burden, and they could float on the water a few times in the water. When people reached middle age, their physical strength was not as good as before.
In such a situation, middle -aged people are tired of stress and competition, and want to resist internal rolls and pursue comfort. This is inconsistent with the main melody of positive energy, but it is indeed a real desire.Listening to Chu Yin's statement, it seems that it is not harsh.It is just that in the highly competitive Chinese society, "abolition" is also a luxury for many people. In the face of reality, you still have to have courage, and you have to bear it.From the "funeral culture" of decadence to despair to the "Buddhist department" that is not happy or sad; from the "lying flat" of the internal roll to the "abolition" that has no desire to describeAdults' tiredness of high -pressure life also reflects the urgent anxiety of Chinese society.This anxiety is constantly enlarging. The Chinese economy has bid farewell to the high -speed growth period. The faster of cakes is slower, and competition will inevitably be more intense.
In three years of the epidemic, a round of tossing in Chinese society has paid a heavy price, the economic growth has slowed significantly, the market downturn has led to a decline in employment, and society's confidence is also hovering.Whether it is young people or middle -aged people, want to live comfortably and calmly, it will be more and more hopeful. This will be a problem that Chinese governors need to face for a long time in the future.
