Only kissing and not in love.The emergence of this phenomenon or the lack of the opportunity to communicate with the opposite sex during the epidemic period makes young people unable to make love normally.Not According to the surging news on December 16, a lot of information about "mouth friends" recently appeared on the Internet, and some students recruited "mouth friends" on the campus walls of colleges.The so -called "mouth friend" means that both men and women agreed that they only kissing but not building love relationships, not interfered or intervened in each other, and either party can suspend this relationship at any time.Not Some young people said in an interview that they yearn for a real relationship, but because of a variety of factors, they can't enter love relationships. At this timeReplacement option.At the same time, they will strictly distinguish between "mouth friends" and love relationships, and will not easily turn "mouth friends" into lovers.Not Surging news reports pointed out that there is a risk of harassment and fraud in the relationship between "mouth friends".Some young people posted posts on social platforms to recruit "mouth friends" with coordinates. The following responses are often unsightly, and many private messages have sexual harassment content.In addition, if there is a close behavior that violates willingness, the special relationship of "mouth friend" may cause difficulties in the fact that the facts and the victim's rights defend the rights.Not For the emergence of the phenomenon of "Qiaoyou", Fei Junfeng, former director of the Mental Health Education and Research Center of Nanjing University, believes that young people lack the opportunity to communicate with the opposite sex during the epidemic, which is not conducive to their normal normalLand to love love.In addition, society is too "rolled", which has caused young people to have no energy to fall in love.Other young people are curious about this new way of making friends.Not Fei Junfeng believes that "mouth friend" is not a real love experience, and has no sense of responsibility. This shows that the young people lack the courage to enter intimate relationships, and they are not confident in themselves.Self -harm, because he disrespects your body, turns your body into a tool and thing. This kind of view of love and love is problematic. "
In addition to the above risks, Fei Junfeng also mentioned, "" "The random oral contact brought by the mouth friend may be infected with disease, or it may be cheated.Not The concept of "mouth friend" does not only appear this year.As early as 2008, Douban set up a group entitled "When I needed only a kiss", providing a place for discussion for people who only want to "kiss" without involving other relationships, thereby extending "kiss friends".In 2017, the group's posts stopped updating.In Zhihu, there are also questions and discussions about "kiss friends" in 2021.
