Recently, some netizens reported that at the freshman parent meeting held by No. 1 Primary School in Huangpu District, Guangzhou, the principal's lecture on PPT appeared "Don't complain at will, because the complaints could not be admitted to high school".On September 11, the Education Bureau of Huangpu District issued a statement saying that after verification, the PPT did not use the above statements. The school originally wanted parents to understand, support and tolerate the school, and cultivate a good atmosphere of home -school co -education.At present, the bureau has made serious criticisms on the parties, ordered the relevant person in charge of the school to make a written review, and do a good job of explaining to parents to eliminate misunderstandings.
As far as things are discussed, the perception of PPT screenshots simply is different from the feeling at the parent conference site: because of the same content, the effect may be very different in different tones.Therefore, is there such a possibility: The principal only talked about some controversial or even excellent views just to express more vividly and an active atmosphere?After all, "the complaints are not admitted to high school." Obviously there is no logic or data support, like threats, and a curse. It seems to be a joke.Of course, this is not for the principal: anyway, in the occasion of teaching and educating people, the publicly mentioned such a requirement to the new parents not only preset the unbearable parents, but also a manifestation of the school's unconfident.
From the pictures of online transmission, in addition to the "don't complain at will" that causes uproar, the principal's PPT also has the word "children have 100 % problems with parents". This is also a controversial expression of expression.EssenceIt is not difficult to find that these two sentences implies a logical relationship: if the child has a problem, it must be the responsibility of the parents, and it has nothing to do with the school.
Some netizens said that "casual complaints" are like "malicious salary".Indeed, both are essentially stigma in legitimate rights.In the family relationship, the parents of the students are actually a disadvantaged party. They are afraid that their children will be implicated because of their own words and deeds. The teacher may "hate the house and black" and treat their children.In order to prevent this possibility, parents are actually cautious in communication with the school, and they are afraid of offending the teacher.If one thing has reached the point of complaints, most of them have been thoughtful and repeatedly weighing, and they are cautious rather than casual.
What is even more regrettable is that it is not the head teacher who says this, but the length of a school.If teachers can only represent individuals, the performance of the principal can reflect the education concept of a school, and the principal can play a key role in the development of a school."It is not allowed to complain at will", or "parental responsibility", such a cognitive level is undoubtedly unqualified.From the perspective of the deepening layer, this also shows that the school lacks acceptance and trust in parents.
Do schools and teachers need a certain authority?The answer is yes, but this authority does not come from allowing students or parents to close their mouths, but from the broadness of vision, leadership of thinking, the teaching of knowledge, and the practice of virtues. Students need to feel and identify from their hearts.Campus education and family education are very important. Schools let parents do not worry about expressing their opinions, put forward suggestions, or even complain. Such interactions will not only damage the authority of the school and teachers at all.stand up.
There is such a anecdote: a student suffers from serious illness, and his class wants to initiate a donation, and the principal is rejected.He thought of another way to play a game of "paying the paper to the principal".The principal stood in one place, and any student could throw a paper ball from him, but the cost was to donate 100 yuan to the sick classmate.The principal wants to teach two things for teachers and students of the school: first, when people around you need help, you should help as much as possible.The second one can challenge and question any authority, even if that person is the principal.
